Safety Center

Your Safety Matters

We're committed to creating a safe environment where you can connect with confidence

In Case of Emergency

If you feel you are in immediate danger, contact local emergency services immediately.

Our Safety Commitment

At TakeMeOutToDinner, your safety is our top priority. We've implemented comprehensive measures to ensure that every member can connect with confidence and peace of mind.

Thorough Vetting

Every member undergoes our comprehensive application review

Identity Verification

Multi-step verification process for all members

24/7 Monitoring

Continuous monitoring for suspicious activity

Rapid Response

Quick action on reports and safety concerns

Platform Safety Features

Profile Verification

Our multi-layer verification process includes:

Photo verification to ensure authentic profiles
LinkedIn and professional background verification
Social media cross-referencing
Application review by our trust & safety team
Ongoing monitoring for profile authenticity

Look for the verified badge on profiles for added confidence.

Reporting & Blocking

Take control of your experience with our safety tools:

One-click reporting for inappropriate behavior
Immediate blocking capabilities
Anonymous reporting options
Detailed incident reporting for thorough investigation
Photo and message screenshot capabilities for evidence

All reports are reviewed within 24 hours by our safety team.

Safe Meeting Locations

All first dinners happen at vetted public restaurants:

Curated list of safe, public dining establishments
Well-lit, populated locations only
Restaurant staff aware of our safety partnership
Option to share dinner plans with trusted contacts
Check-in feature during your dinner

Privacy Protection

Your personal information is protected:

Phone numbers hidden until you choose to share
Last names not displayed on profiles
Secure messaging through our platform
No location tracking without permission
Control over what information is visible

Safety Best Practices

Before Your Dinner

✓ Video chat or phone call before meeting
✓ Google your dinner partner
✓ Tell a friend your dinner plans
✓ Meet at the restaurant (don't accept rides)
✓ Trust your instincts if something feels off

During Your Dinner

✓ Stay in public areas
✓ Keep your phone charged
✓ Don't leave drinks unattended
✓ Limit alcohol consumption
✓ Have your own transportation arranged

Online Safety

✓ Keep conversations on our platform initially
✓ Don't share financial information
✓ Be cautious about sharing personal details
✓ Watch for inconsistencies in stories
✓ Report suspicious behavior immediately

Red Flags to Watch For

⚠ Requests for money or financial help
⚠ Pressure to move off platform quickly
⚠ Inconsistent information or stories
⚠ Overly aggressive or inappropriate behavior
⚠ Refusal to video chat or meet in public

Our Trust & Safety Team

Our dedicated team works around the clock to maintain a safe environment for all members. We combine technology with human expertise to:

Proactive Measures:

Screen all new applications
Monitor for fake profiles
Detect suspicious patterns
Verify member identities

Reactive Support:

Investigate all reports
Provide member support
Coordinate with authorities
Continuously improve safety

Safety Resources

Emergency Resources

Emergency Services: Contact your local emergency number

Domestic Violence Support: Available through national hotline services

Sexual Assault Support: RAINN provides confidential support

Crime Victims Support: Local victim support services available

TakeMeOutToDinner Safety Team: Available through in-app reporting

Reporting Incidents

If you experience or witness any concerning behavior, please report it immediately. You can:

• Use the in-app reporting feature on any profile or message

• Contact our safety team through the in-app support center

• Call our safety hotline (available to members)

• Submit an anonymous report through our website

All reports are confidential and investigated thoroughly within 24 hours.

Additional Support

We partner with professional organizations to provide additional support:

• Professional counseling referrals

• Legal resource connections

• Safety planning assistance

• Identity theft protection resources

Our Safety Pledge

We pledge to maintain the highest standards of safety and security for our community. Your trust is our foundation, and we're committed to continuous improvement in protecting our members. Together, we're creating a space where meaningful connections can flourish safely.