Our exclusive process ensures every member is exceptional and every dinner is memorable. Here's exactly how TakeMeOutToDinner works.
Start your journey by applying directly or using an invite code from an existing member. Our application asks thoughtful questions about your interests, favorite restaurants, and what makes you unique.
Identity Verification
Link your LinkedIn or social profiles
Quality Photos
Upload 1-5 high-quality photos
Quick Process
Takes only 10 minutes
Every application is personally reviewed by our team. We look for interesting, accomplished individuals who will contribute positively to our community. This isn't about perfection—it's about finding people who bring something special to the table.
What we look for:
Once approved, you'll receive an exclusive welcome email and gain access to your member dashboard. Set up your profile, add your dining preferences, and get ready to start making connections.
Member Benefits
Invite Friends
The magic happens here. Either host a dinner at your favorite restaurant or browse invitations from other members. Every invitation includes the restaurant, date, time, and a personal message.
Host a Dinner
Join a Dinner
Once matched, you'll have access to a private chat to coordinate details and say hello. We keep it minimal—just enough to break the ice and confirm logistics. The real conversation happens over dinner.
Chat Guidelines
This is where the magic happens. Meet at the restaurant, enjoy great food, and have genuine conversation. No pressure, no expectations—just two interesting people sharing a meal in one of NYC's great restaurants.
Arrive on Time
Respect is key in our community
Be Present
Put the phone away and connect
Have Fun
Enjoy the experience!
The host covers the entire bill—a generous gesture that sets the tone for a special evening
Share the cost equally—the modern approach that keeps things comfortable for everyone
Figure it out when you meet—sometimes spontaneity is the best approach
We review applications within 3-5 business days. Referred applications often receive priority review.
Life happens! Cancel as early as possible through the app. Last-minute cancellations without good cause may affect your membership.
TakeMeOutToDinner is designed for one-on-one connections. Group dinners may be introduced in the future.
Currently, membership is free while we build our founding community. Premium features may be introduced later.
You can have up to 3 upcoming dinners at a time. Complete more dinners to unlock additional slots.